Striptease, Biology and Perversion: C.S. Lewis on Sex

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Chastity is the most unpopular of the Christian virtues. There is no getting away from it: the old Christian rule is, “Either marriage, with complete faithfulness to your partner, or else total abstinence.” Now this is so difficult and so contrary to our instincts, that obviously either Christianity is wrong or our sexual instinct, as it now is, has gone wrong. Of course, being a Christian, I think it is the instinct which has gone wrong,

But I have other reasons for thinking so:

  1. Biology: The biological purpose of sex is children, just as the biological purpose of eating is to repair the body. Now if we eat whenever we feel inclined and just as much as we want, it is quite true that most of us will eat too much: but not terrifically too much. One man may eat enough for two, but he does not eat enough for ten. The appetite goes a little beyond its biological purpose, but not enormously. But if a healthy young man indulged his sexual appetite whenever he felt inclined, and if each act produced a baby, then in ten years he might easily populate a small village. This appetite is in ludicrous and preposterous excess of its function.
  2. Striptease: Or take it another way. You can get a large audience together for a striptease act—that is, to watch a girl undress on the stage. Now suppose you came to a country where you could fill a theater by simply bringing a covered plate on to the stage and then slowly lifting the cover as to let everyone see, just before the lights went out, that it contained a mutton chop or a bit of bacon, would you not think that in that country something had gone wrong with the appetite for food? And would not anyone who had grown up in a different world think there was something equally queer about the state of the sex instinct among us?…
  3. Perversion: You find very few people who want to eat things that really are not food or to do other things with food instead of eating it. In other words, perversions of the food appetite are rare. But perversions of the sex instinct are numerous, hard to cure, and frightful….We have been told, till one is sick of hearing it, that sexual desire is in the same state as any of our other natural desires and that if only we abandon the old Victorian idea of hushing it up, everything in the garden will be lovely. It is not true. The moment you look at the facts, and away from the propaganda, you see that it is not.

—C.S. Lewis, The Joyful Christian, pp. 127-128 (Reformatted for readability)

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Top Advent Music, Books and Daily Devotional

Advent, the prime time to fix our hearts on Christ’s birth, began yesterday. Here are some suggestions to get you started as we prepare for the Christmas season.

 Seeking God’s Face: Praying With the Bible Through the YearPhilip Reinders

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Following the church calendar seasons of Advent and Lent (as well as “ordinary time,” i.e. most of the year) the brief daily devotionals, which include daily readings from the Psalms, another brief Scripture passage, and a daily prayer that specifically references Reformed creeds and confessions (i.e. Heidelberg, Westminster, Belgic, etc.) in an unobtrusive and winsome way, this book–far from being arid or erudite– will greatly help orient you for the Christmas season (even though it’s not exclusively a Christmas book). If you’re already using a daily devotional, you can still use it with this one. Download a free Advent PDF sampler here.

On the IncarnationSt. Athanasius, with a Preface by C.S. Lewis41QQ3xAgoQL._SL160_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-dp,TopRight,12,-18_SH30_OU01_AA160_

I owned this small book for over a decade before finally reading it two years ago. Why did I wait so long? I can’t think of a better book to help fix your mind on Christ’s Incarnation. And Lewis sets the table as only he can do.

   

A Christmas Carolers’ Book in Song and StoryTorstein Kvamme

I extensively examined a myriad of Christmas carol 51thahYV3GL._SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_-2books, and this is the clear winner. Originally published in 1935, it was written by a Danish man named Torstein Kvamme. (With a name like that, he was simply predestined to write this book.) Containing 49 songs with lyrics and music, this is a straight up old-school (and predominantly sacred) Christmas caroling book, replete with readable brief song introductions and minimalist illustrations. It’s also highly portable, kid friendly, and cheap (yet not cheaply made). This year I’m buying multiple copies, for our family and guests. And if you plan on caroling, this is the book to use.

                                     

                                                  ChristmasBruce Cockburn

  Although originally released in 1992 by Canadian singer-songwriter 51CkXgFB5XL._AA160_Bruce  Cockburn, this album is in our family’s top three Christmas favorites. Containing stripped down acoustic music and harmonies with hints of French, Creole, and Mexican stylings, there’s not a dud on the album. Twenty years later, it’s one of the few modern Christmas albums that sounds as good as when it was released. At times joyful, at other times somber and pensive, it’s a beauty.

                           

                                 ChristmasHarry Belafonte

Harry Belafonte’s collection of Christmas tunes is unparalleled. I first51X-Q2ZQ96L._AA160_ heard it in the mid-1990’s on our local classical music radio station (although it’s not classical music). I was immediately smitten. Now it’s in our top three Christmas albums. Whenever we have guests during the Christmas season, they inevitably ask about it. And his song “Goin Down Jordan”? It’s strangely out-of-place, but a huge highlight (especially if you’re a Baptist).

              

41kjaDnRv+L._SL500_-2 The Holly and the Ivy: Carols from Clare CollegeJohn Rutter

This was esteemed choral composer John Rutter’s big splash into Christmas music in 1979. If you love classical choral music, you probably already own it. If you think you hate choral music, buy this, listen to it several times through, and get back to me. If you still hate it, lunch is on me. Or maybe some homemade eggnog.

61KasVMcH0L._SY355_ChristmasSufjan Stevens

Weird, quirky, occasionally haunting and mostly played with friends in his home on children’s toy instruments, Sufjan’s Christmas might take a bit getting used to, but once it clicks you’re hooked. One of a few of our family’s desert island Christmas discs.

—And what’s largely considered the definitive version of Handel’s Messiah? This one.

—Want a daily or weekly Advent devotional that strikes a nice balance of Scripture, song, and commentary—and it’s free? Read this.

What are your Christmas favorites? Let me know in the comments below.