Sexual Intimacy, Rights and the Marriage Bed

John Piper writes about the application of 1 Corinthians 7:3-5:

What is paradoxical and delicate about this text is that logically it doesn’t work. What it does is call the couple to a profound effort to please the other without settling who will wind up getting the most pleasure, especially because each person will get pleasure in not asking the other to do what the other finds unpleasurable. 

Read the whole article here.